Create and share belonging in your neighbourhood

Published 20th March 2024
The community you want starts at your front door! What are you doing to create and share belonging in Victor Harbor?

In the lead up to National Neighbour Day (Sunday, 31 March 2024), the City of Victor Harbor’s Caring Neighbourhood Program is encouraging community members to build a social connection with their neighbours.

National Neighbour Day is the perfect opportunity to connect and share belonging with those around us. Good relationships between neighbours can change communities in a positive way, and social connection has been proven to prevent loneliness, isolation and depression.

While many of us are connected through community groups and organisations, there is still a large portion of our population that is lonely. When we create connections with our neighbours, we can provide a sense of belonging.

Residents can collect ‘calling cards’ from the Civic Centre (1 Bay Road, Victor Harbor) to help get an initial conversation going. The calling cards have space for contact details and a note, so they can be filled out and left in a neighbour’s letterbox.

Those who already have a connection with their neighbours may want to share a meal, enjoy a cuppa, or offer some excess fruit from the veggie garden to their neighbour.

The values of the City of Victor Harbor’s Caring Neighbourhood Program fall in line with that of National Neighbour Day. The Program has been operating for over 25 years, offering an inclusive and supportive environment to those who are aged over 65 and feeling isolated or disconnected. For more information about the Caring Neighbourhood Program, visit victor.sa.gov.au/ageingwell.

For more resources regarding Neighbour Day visit neighbourseveryday.org.

10 Reasons to Share Belonging

  1. Belonging doesn’t happen alone - A group identity gives us a sense of identity, purpose, and validation. We can’t create a group on our own. We must invite others ‘in’.
  2. Mental health and wellbeing - Creating and sharing belonging is an antidote to loneliness. Our research shows that the Neighbours Every Day campaign reduces loneliness and fosters mental health and wellbeing.
  3. Self-growth – Sharing belonging requires individuals and communities to invite others in. It requires people to step out of their comfort zone, practise self-reflection, empathy, and compassion.
  4. Stronger, more resilient communities – Diverse communities where people feel like they belong are more likely to work together to overcome obstacles and adapt to changes. They are more likely to have a range of skills and experiences that can help them respond to challenges and opportunities. They also feel comfortable calling on each other for help when needed.
  5. Inclusive and diverse communities - Sharing a sense of belonging encourages diverse groups to come together and appreciate each other's unique perspectives. They break down barriers, creating an environment where people from all backgrounds feel valued.
  6. It makes life more interesting – Diversity makes us more creative, innovative and inspired. Different experiences generate different ideas.
  7. Better decision-making and conflict resolution – It's difficult to consider all the possibilities if you’ve never had the experience. People who have different life experiences to you often have different problems, opportunities, and solutions. In times of conflict, when diversity is respected, shared values and common humanity can be found.
  8. Inspire others – Sharing belonging not only benefits individuals, and communities, but it also has a positive ripple effect on society. When groups see others stepping up to the challenge and transforming their behaviour, they feel inspired to do the same.
  9. Relationship Satisfaction - The benefits of belonging extend beyond just to those who feel newly included. Having diverse relationships improves everyone’s relationship satisfaction, mental health, and wellbeing.
  10. Enhance Generosity - Sharing is an act of generosity that can bring joy and satisfaction to both the giver and the receiver – AND this includes sharing belonging!